The best view comes after the hardest climb.
There’s a lot of useful stuff you can learn in college if you’re the right kind of student, but it doesn’t teach you everything there is to know about life. There are all too many things that I didn’t learn in college, and you probably didn’t either. Here are 6 of the biggest shifts you’ll experience once you leave the college setting.
Freshman year. Then Sophomore year. Then Junior year. Then Senior year. You do that on a semester-by-semester basis for four years, and then you’ve graduated from college. You probably didn’t learn in college how your path becomes a lot less clear after that. Even if you get a job right out of school (which isn’t easy nowadays) you’re still adjusting to that job, probably living in a new place and getting used to life without a GPA. It’s a whole new environment that you have to get acclimated to, and one that doesn’t come with any syllabi.
Once you and your friends are out of college, expect people to start moving away. What you didn’t learn in college is that once you’ve graduated, you and your friends are no longer congregated in the circumference of a school campus. Most of your fellow employees at your job probably aren’t going to be in the same age group as you, either. Life, at least at first, is probably going to become a bit lonelier. Over time you’ll build back up a group of people you can depend on and socialize with, but you probably didn’t learn the feeling of isolation that’s awaiting you in life after college.
You can miss a class or two or ten at school, as long as you make it to your exams and turn in your term papers on time. You didn’t learn in college that that particular luxury evaporates once you’ve graduated. Your employer is not going to be okay with you missing a day of work, or even with you being late more than once or twice. You were rewarded for your perfect attendance record in high school, and benefited from it in post-secondary education. After that, it’s absolutely mandatory.
Professors are sometimes willing to give you incompletes instead of Fs. You didn’t learn in college that you can’t expect that kind of lenience in the workplace. If an assignment at your job is due on Friday, you damn well have that project finished and polished by 5 p.m. on Friday. Earlier, if you know what’s best for you.
At least I hope not. Professors come and go. Even though people don’t stay at job positions as long as they used to, you’re going to typically have the same employer for more than a semester. That means you can’t risk getting on the wrong side of your bosses. Whereas spirited differences with professors are largely encouraged, conflict with your employer is almost always looked down upon. Make a good impression and stay in their good graces for as long as you stay at their place of work.
College, though complex, is in so many ways a simple thing. You get out into the real world for the first time. You make friends. You experience life to its fullest. All the while you find yourself getting a score from your professors at how you’re faring in school. You probably didn’t learn in college how to get a clear idea of how you’re doing. Even if you’re getting progress reports at work, you will probably never have as definitive an idea of what your boss thinks of you as you did in college.
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Are you worried that your stories aren’t going over well in social settings? Do you see that hot girl you’re talking to check her phone every few seconds while you talk? Does the interesting guy you’d like to get to know better seem to detach mentally while you’re speaking? Do you have difficulty connecting with people you want to become friends with? Let this article help you learn an easy method for telling an interesting story. In four simple steps, you can connect emotionally with your listener, and draw them in to care about your story, but more importantly, to care about you.
Use this as a guideline, but please keep in mind that we all think our stories are far more interesting than others do. Unless people are always telling you how interesting and hilarious you are, try to stick roughly to the proposed sentence limits. The worst is to have someone walk away in the middle of your story with some vague excuse, because your story was endless and they wanted to escape the monotony. Far better to leave your listener wanting more.
People write about conflicts in the Middle East in one topic sentence in the New York Times, so you can certainly give only one sentence about why that woman at work went totally off the wall after her fiancee dumped her.
Example: “So, at work there’s this woman who was always talking about how awesome her fiancee was, and then he dumped her.”
People cannot connect to your topic unless there are emotions involved. Facts are not going to draw your listener in to your anecdote. You must try to put yourself in the shoes of whoever you’re speaking about, whether it is Barack Obama or that woman at work. Use multiple emotion words here. No more than three sentences. You don’t want your listener’s attention to start wandering when you drone on.
Example: “She was devastated. She kept crying at her desk and calling her friends and crying to them too. She kept taking her engagement ring off and then putting it back on.”
Otherwise it’s like you’re just a reporter. Your listener wants to connect with you, and know what you think and feel. Three sentences.
Example: “I felt so heartbroken for her. It reminded me a lot of when I got dumped senior year by my boyfriend of four years. I wanted to curl up and never leave my dorm room.”
Relate the story to both you and your listener, thereby connecting you and your listener even more. You want to express emotion here too, especially if you and your listener are sharing the same emotion. This is your last chance to connect here, so make it count. Two sentences, but hopefully you’ll end up saying more because your listener will jump in to share her own thoughts and feelings too. Then a conversation will be sparked, which is the real goal.
Example: “So really, it made me think of what you said the other day, that you’re lucky to be single right now and to be enjoying that phase of your life. I feel the same way!”
If you keep these tips in mind, and practice a few times the next time you’re around other people, you’ll be telling an interesting story in no time. And then you’ll be beating off potential friends and dates with a stick, you social butterfly, you.
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Hoverboards have always been fascinating for tech enthusiasts. A handful of movies featured them, but now you can get one of your own!
The Hendo Hoverboard is a real, working hoverboard that works on a specific type of platform.
It’s lightweight, easy to use, and there exists a developers’ kit for inventors that allows virtually anyone to apply the same technology anywhere! Think moving trays, hovering couches, and floating platforms. The company’s objective is to make the hoverboard technology available to everyone for faster development.
Right now, the Hendo Hoverboard is perfect for skateboarders and anyone who has ever wanted to magically float in the air. The developer kit is ideal for inventors and even businesses that want to integrate the technology with their current products.
You can get your hands on the developer kit for $299. The hoverboard was limited to 10 purchases and is currently sold out!
Hendo Hoverboards – World’s first REAL hoverboard | Kickstarter
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Math can get in the way of your dreams. Incorrect computations can cause you to fail your classes and even get fired from work. What if you could magically take a photo of a math problem and get the answer instantly?
Introducing Photomath, an impressive app that does exactly that.
Point your phone at a math problem and Photomath will give you the answer. It also shows you the proper steps to take to arrive at complex solutions. Below are the supported features of the app:
The Photomath app is a breakthrough for everyone. Students can cut their homework time in half. Furthermore, individuals don’t need to hire an expensive math tutor.
Professionals such as consultants, engineers, and analysts may also find this app extremely beneficial. With Photomath, individuals can compute for data without relying on Excel equations.
Photo Math | Home
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Whenever we consider the online revolution and the innovation of the Internet, we tend to focus on those that have impacted heavily on businesses. From development of accurate stock management tools to real-time communication applications such as Skype, we have marveled at the ideas that have driven commercial efficiency while also reducing costs. Just as technological advancement has helped small and medium sized enterprises, however, it has also enabled individuals to make money and achieve both their personal and professional dreams.
It has never been easier or more affordable to conceive, design and create a personal website, for example, which can subsequently be used for multiple purposes. Service providers like SquareSpace embody this ease of use better than any, as their process only requires you to select a template and design theme before integrating images, copy and social media icons. You are then free to customize the website according to your needs, whether these relate to the organisation of your personal life or the development of your career.
With these points in mind, let’s take a look at 7 reasons why you should build a personal website:
Above all else, a personal website serves as a window in which you can showcase marketable skills and connect with a targeted audience. This is best applied when looking for work, whether you are in search of gainful employment or simply considering an alternative career path. Simply by creating an engaging and informative personal website that promotes both your skill-set and unique characteristics as a candidate for work, you can connect with potential employers and establish an entry point for a productive professional website. You can even utilize proper SEO practices and optimize your personal website to make it easier for potential employers to find your details.
On a similar note, aspiring sole traders of entrepreneurs can also use personal websites to pre-launch their new business concept, product or service. Such a site can serve multiple purposes, from creating awareness of your developing concept to executing pre-sales and raising much needed revenue. The latter technique was used successfully by entrepreneur Priska Diaz, who was able to raise $50,000 for her company Bittylab simply by pre-selling her air-free baby bottles through a personal website. Whether you aim to create an overarching brand or simply generate additional income, a personal website can be an invaluable tool.
Increasingly, the online space has become a crutch to citizens who are in search of knowledge and information. This theory can be applied across multiple sectors, from the entertainment industry to the interconnected worlds of business and commerce. An estimated 75% of more than 57,499 U.S. adults surveyed and referenced products online before making a purchase, for example, while I myself used the Internet to reference advice when playing blackjack in Nevada last year. Personal websites play a huge role in successfully imparting expertise and objective opinions, as they can be established by individuals with relevant knowledge who want to share their experience. So if you have a wealth of knowledge and wish to help others or establish yourself as an expert in a particular field, a personal website provides the ideal platform.
Thanks to the development of smartphones and digital cameras, we are able to capture more joyous moments in real-time than ever before. This leaves us with a high volume of videos and images, however, and these must be stored securely if they are to be shared successfully through the generations. A personal website provides the ideal location in which to store your images, while also ensuring that they can be accessed at all times from your personal server. Publishing precious images on a live website also enables others to view them at their leisure, which in turn helps to create more interactive experiences that can unify friend and families regardless of their geographical location.
From artists and photographers to freelance graphic designers, there are a number of people who make their living by creating visually engaging imagery. These individuals are primarily judged on the quality of their visual output, so it is crucial that they utilise a platform that adequately showcases their portfolio of work. Personal websites are ideal for this purpose as the vast majority of templates allow users to upload imagery and embed videos, while such diversity also enables them to customize their layout to minimize the use of text. Given that these websites also boast social functions, potential clients can engage with the artist through a number of mediums and develop a productive working relationship.
Regardless of your pursuit or profession, a personal website can be used to assist you at every conceivable stage. This is especially true for young professionals who are looking to progress within their chosen careers, as a personal online space provides the ideal platform from which to network aggressively and liaise with relevant industry experts. In this respect a personal website can serve as a virtual business card, where interested parties can access your contact details and engage in real-time communication. If you also take a proactive approach to socially sharing the website and including it within the body of your email signature, you can improve your visibility further and establish yourself as a recognizable thought leader within your sector.
While we have discussed how a personal website may be used to achieve individual goals, it is important to note that it also has the potential to help others. As an online medium that can connect with millions of viewers around the world, it is the ideal platform from which to raise awareness of a specific issue or charitable cause. Modern design templates also feature fully-integrated payment processing technology, which means that you solicit donations and effectively raise funds for your cause. As individuals we all have charitable causes that touch our hearts in one way or another, and a personal website allows us to raise awareness and funds from a single, online space.
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